Friday's Devotional for May

Friday's Devotional Prayer


Heavenly Father,

Soften my heart to forgive
as I have been forgiven.

Teach me to see others
through the eyes of Your mercy.

Heal my wounds and
make me an instrument of Your compassion.

May my words and deeds
reflect Your grace in a hurting world.

In Jesus' name, Our Lord and Saviour, Amen.


Healing Begins with the Courage

to Release What Broke You


Spring is a fitting season to contemplate Healing and Forgiveness, especially in pursuing the greater virtues of compassion and mercy that Our Lord and Saviour so deeply exemplified. Forgiveness is not merely an action; it is a disposition shaped by the grace that Our Father extends to us daily. Our Lord emphasized the primacy of forgiveness when He instructed, “And when ye stand praying, forgive, if ye have ought against any: that your Father also which is in heaven may forgive you your trespasses” (Mark 11:25). Embedded within this command is a profound truth: forgiveness is not optional for those who seek to be in right relationship with Our Lord and Creator.

It is the heart’s outward testimony that it understands mercy, having itself been a recipient of it. The temptation to withhold forgiveness often finds rationalization in the severity of the offense. Prone to pride, humanity clutches its grievances as shields against perceived vulnerability. Yet, in doing so, it unwittingly constructs prisons of its own making, estranging itself from the offender and the peace that flows from Our Lord. To forgive is to imitate Our Father’s character; to cling to bitterness is to resist His transformative work in our lives. The power of forgiveness is not to be underestimated, as it can turn even the most bitter situations into opportunities for growth and healing.

The life of mercy is beautifully simple yet profoundly demanding. Our Lord and Saviour’s teaching, “Be ye therefore merciful, as your Father also is merciful” (Luke 6:36), distills the moral imperative of the Christian journey. Mercy does not negate justice; rather, it transcends it. It allows love to govern where law alone would condemn. To be merciful is to surrender the right to demand satisfaction for wrongs suffered and to entrust judgment to the wisdom of Our Father, whose justice is perfect and whose compassion is limitless.

This principle is not new. Long before the earthly ministry of Our Lord and Saviour, the Septuagint reminds us: “The merciful man doeth good to his soul: but he that is cruel troubleth his flesh” (Proverbs 11:17, LXX). Mercy, therefore, is not merely for the benefit of others; it is a balm for the giver's soul. Cruelty, whether active or passive, through refusal to forgive, wounds the spirit of the one who clings to it. Thus, forgiveness is not a weakness but an act of spiritual strength and self-preservation aligned with divine wisdom.

In a society that exalts personal rights and self-justification, to forgive can seem like an act of madness — or worse, of defeat. Yet, in the kingdom of Our Lord, forgiveness is the highest expression of freedom. It is an act of authority over oneself, refusing to allow evil to dictate one’s heart or destiny. To love and to forgive in deed and truth, as Saint John exhorts, is the mark of those who live not by the flesh but by the Spirit: “Little children, let us not love in word, neither in tongue; but in deed and truth” (1 John 3:18). Mere platitudes will not suffice; action is demanded, and the first action of love is often forgiveness. The freedom that comes from forgiveness is a liberating force, allowing us to let go of the burdens of anger and resentment and to live in peace and harmony with others.

The absence of forgiveness comes with a cost. That cost is a path of pride and the illusion of moral superiority. But what it grants in return is incalculably greater: a share in the very life and character of Our Lord and Saviour. To forgive is to heal not only relationships but oneself; it is to permit the Spirit to cultivate joy where bitterness once grew. The personal growth that comes from forgiveness is a powerful motivator, as it allows us to align more closely with the teachings of Our Lord and Saviour and to experience the joy and peace that come from living a life of forgiveness.

Today, an invitation is awaiting you. An invitation to lay down the heavy armor of old grievances and pick up the light yoke of grace instead. In prayer, even if reconciliation remains impossible in the visible world, one can offer the invisible gift of forgiveness, entrusting outcomes to the sovereign care of Our Lord and Creator. To ponder this deeply is to recognize that our refusal to forgive may delay external peace and the internal healing we all desperately seek.

As the earth prepares to yield its fruits, we are reminded that the harvest of forgiveness is ours to sow and reap. As we consider those we need to forgive — or those from whom we must humbly seek forgiveness — we would do well to reflect on the exhortation woven into the fabric of Christian living: “Let every one of us please his neighbor for his good to edification” (Romans 15:2). For in seeking the good of others, even when it is undeserved, we discover that we are built up, strengthened, and made whole.

Let the season speak to the soul: let healing arise where hurt has lingered; let compassion flow where judgment once reigned. In the pursuit of forgiveness and compassion, we do not merely follow a path — we become vessels of the living grace of Our Lord, offering the broken world a glimpse of His unchanging mercy.

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